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✅ "I can see you're upset. Tell me what happened."

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Oct 7, 2026 2 views Super Admin

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✅ "I can see you're upset. Tell me what happened."

This EthiKidsPlay guide belongs to the MEDIA section, under Connect Before You Correct. It is designed as a practical starting point for families exploring this topic together.

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  • Children are more likely to listen when they feel heard and understood.
  • 2. 👂 Listen to Your Child
  • Give your child your full attention when they are talking.
  • Put down your phone, make eye contact, and listen without immediately judging or interrupting.
  • Remember: Listening doesn't mean agreeing with everything your child says. It means showing them that their feelings and thoughts matter.
  • 3. ⭐ Praise Good Behavior
  • Don't only notice your child when they do something wrong.
  • When you see positive behavior, point it out.
  • Instead of:
  • ❌ "Good job."
  • Try:
  • ✅ "You put your toys away without being asked. That's very responsible!"

More ideas in this section

  • Before correcting your child's behavior, try to understand what they are feeling.
  • Instead of immediately saying:
  • ❌ "Stop crying!"
  • Try:
  • Children are more likely to listen when they feel heard and understood.

Use these ideas as a starting point, adapt them to your family, and consult a qualified professional when personalised advice is needed.

Source: 8 EthiKidsPlay → Parenting.docx.

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