Parenting guide
Article overview
Giving children limited choices can help them develop independence.
This EthiKidsPlay guide belongs to the MEDIA section, under Give Choices. It is designed as a practical starting point for families exploring this topic together.
Source notes
- Instead of:
- ❌ "Get dressed now!"
- Try:
- ✅ "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?"
- You are still setting the boundary, while giving your child some control.
- 7. 🎯 Focus on the Behavior, Not the Child
- Correct the behavior without labeling the child.
- Instead of:
- ❌ "You're a bad boy."
- Try:
- ✅ "Hitting your sister isn't okay. Let's find another way to solve the problem."
- A child can make a bad choice without being a "bad child."
More ideas in this section
- Instead of:
- ❌ "Get dressed now!"
- Try:
- ✅ "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?"
- You are still setting the boundary, while giving your child some control.
Use these ideas as a starting point, adapt them to your family, and consult a qualified professional when personalised advice is needed.
Source: 8 EthiKidsPlay → Parenting.docx.
