Parenting guide
Article overview
Make sure the rules are consistent rather than changing them depending on your mood.
This EthiKidsPlay guide belongs to the MEDIA section, under Set Clear and Consistent Rules. It is designed as a practical starting point for families exploring this topic together.
Source notes
- 6. 🗣️ Give Choices
- Giving children limited choices can help them develop independence.
- Instead of:
- ❌ "Get dressed now!"
- Try:
- ✅ "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?"
- You are still setting the boundary, while giving your child some control.
- 7. 🎯 Focus on the Behavior, Not the Child
- Correct the behavior without labeling the child.
- Instead of:
- ❌ "You're a bad boy."
- Try:
More ideas in this section
- Children need boundaries.
- Keep rules simple and age-appropriate.
- For example:
- "We don't hit people. If you're angry, tell me what you're feeling."
Use these ideas as a starting point, adapt them to your family, and consult a qualified professional when personalised advice is needed.
Source: 8 EthiKidsPlay → Parenting.docx.
